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It’s her body; she can wear whatever she wants. You have no say. It’s sad that you are embarrassed about your wife. You should worry about what she thinks, not about what your co-workers think. If she is happy with her bathing suit, then good for her.

It’s the year 2011. Grow up.

Let her, I c nothing wrong with that

Women wear two pieces at the pool, but if you are uncomfortable with it then gently tell her how you feel and why. She is bringing your daughter do I do not think that she is there for a man.

Uh, let her wear what she wants. Telling her what to wear is fringing on a whole different set of issues you don’t want to go for.

Trust her to not betray you. Because it’s not the bathing suit you’re worried about, or the other people.

You’re being silly, let her wear what she wants to wear! It’s just a swim suit? You should be secure enough in your marriage not to worry about things like this.

Plus, if you start telling her what she can and can not wear, she’ll end up thinking that you’re being controlling and untrustworthy and while end up hating you.

I mean seriously, I understand where you’re coming from but don’t make a big deal out of it, it won’t end well.

she’s a grown woman if you dont even trust her then freaking break up
honestly the break up sounds more appealing if you’re that distrusting
yikes

Let her wear what she wants.if she’s confident in it that’s a good thing.if u think she looks hot let her know then she won’t be looking for the compliments from others.trust her every thing will be ok.

Im sorry – u seem to have confused WIFE w/ PROPERTY. She’s NOT ur slave, maid or property – that means she gets to make her own decisions.

Maybe she should be concerned about how you go out in front of women w/out covering up w/ a chador? Also, if I was u I would be more concerned about the other people at the pool who may see u in swim trunks w/ ur gut hanging over it like a slab of pig fat… *shudder*

let her. any way people will still look

Maybe you should quit being so insecure and let your wife wear whatever she wants. If she has a kid and can still look good in a bikini then let her do it. You should be proud of her!

I must say you have an interesting mix of questions in your short time on YA.

Tell me which one are you really, male or female ?

Have you been to Polls and Surveys yet ? That’s where most of the silly questions go.

What don’t you express your feeling to her? She may wear one piece after all…with a wrap!

Oh Please. Everybody in their mother in law wears a bathing suit, and nobody can give a hoot what kind. You are over protective.

I agree with star T, it’s all about communication. Tell her she’s a hot momma and that the bikini is smokin’! But your not very keen on guys hitting on her by the pool or giving her the "I wanna sex you up!" vibe. Tell her that your happy that she’s taking the daughter down to the pool. Let her know that your cool with the bathing suit, and reaffirm that she’s her own person who ultimately has the choice. (Sometimes parents don’t feel like they have a lot of choices after kids, hell it might be the whole motive behind this circumstance) But ask her "For my own piece-of-mind can you wear something just a little less sexy?"