LOL Is This Slightly Gay?
All my friends think im bisexual, im completely straight. I have alot of gay friends, but im a generally a manly kinda guy (Protect female friends etc). The gay thing is that I have a friend who is a guy who everyone says is incredibly cute, and I agree. Hes quiet, polite and one of those guys who is really sweet and everyone likes, so everytime I see him i give him a hug and and occasionally a kiss on the cheek.
I know how queer that sounds, but I really am straight. Why wont guys accept that? and why are other guys afraid to say that hes cute?
Also, a friend of mine always gets jealous and tries to put me down when I talk to girls? I had a picture of me on facebook of me in a mankini and I said "Its ok girls you can stare" obviously jokingly and he got really pissed and wrote "Shut up and stop being cocky" and he was really p-ssed off when a friend of his said I was good looking on one of my photos. Also, he keeps debating on how he could knock me out and I said it doesnt matter because theres never gonna be any need for us to fight. Im on the top level of krav maga and was a boxer before anyway so Im capable of kicking his ass but he gets pissed when people say that to him.
Im not fucking bi. I dont wanna take him up the a-ss, i dont wanna bum him, hes just a really nice guy. All the girls kiss him, some of the guys hug him hes just a great guy and hes cute cos he looks like a hamster.
Yeah all my friends know that he likes to act all manly in front of girls. They arent impressed with it cos he just ends up arguing with people and we just agree to shut him up.
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Things are pretty simple my friend! If you say the guy is good looking it doesn’t matter until and unless you have romantic feelings for him which you are saying you dont have so perhaps you’re not gay! Dont worry about it, most straight guys think that if a guy says to another that he looks good, its gay. actually, it isn’t because everyone can judge about the beauty of individuals! Just be yourself and have fun!
my boyfriend does the same thing and i knoww he’s not gay. he just knows when guys look good.
i mean i could TELL you when a girl looks hot, i know what guys like, but that doesn’t mean i’m attracted to them.
I’m gay and I have always had straight friends like you. My best friend in this world is one of them.
You are straight, and what’s more you know it, so you don’t have to be "careful" about friendships with other guys. Straight guys with "something to worry" about worry about what they "seem" to be to others.
If you have an attraction towards him, then yes, you are gay/bisexual. But if you only see him as a friend, as a brother perhaps, then no, it’s not gay.
Many males in society are afraid to say that another guy is handsome/attractive because they don’t want to be seen as gay. That’s why most of the time, they use the annoying phrase, "No homo." It shows how much of a man one can be.
Ignore your friend. Obviously, he’s jealous of you (and your package, maybe?).
@Pocket Punk: In some cultural traditions, men may kiss each other on the cheeks.
because u probably are bi lol. no straight guy would kiss another guy, even on the cheek no offense but thats why every one thinks ur bi.
ur one friend sounds like a deuch but that has nothing to do with the fact people think ur bi. u should beat him up and tell him to get lost.
Of course not. Showing affection to your friends without giving a **** if it’s "gay" or not shows that you’re manly in that you don’t give a crap what people think about you and you don’t feel your "manliness" is threatened if you do something such as kiss another male on the cheek. So good for you! You sound like a cool dude.
As for your friend, I don’t know what his problem is. You could straight up ask him what’s the big deal with the attitude.
Its nothing to be ashamed of, I would like to have a friend like that. Ignore what people say, they are just jealous. You know that you are straight and that is all that matters. Don’t let other peoples opinions affect you, thats why they are putting you down, to get a reaction.
As for your friend who says you are cocky, you should sit down and talk to him, he obviously doesn’t like you but I’m getting the feeling that it’s because he’s super jealous. Ask him what you do that annoys him. If that doesn’t work then kick his a$$ and show him. that ought to shut him up.
Good luck
dont worry i know what you mean your straight if i was one of your friends and you said you were straight the most ill ever try to become of you is a best friend i wouldnt mind having friends your friend likes you and well he cant stand the fact that your straight
Mostly what other people said, but i just want to add that the reason he may be trying to put you down is because he likes you. I think he’s sortve bitter that the fact you are straight yet obviously attractive to him.
I think by saying he is cute and the kissing on the cheek is a really sweet thing to do and i really admire you for not giving a fuck; you just do what you want to do, but i think it may be giving him mixed signals?
I hope everything turns out okay. Good luck
You seem fun to hang out with.
And not gay at all.
this guy is not a good friend dont talk to him again